HQ: Terry & Dave have been together for a year. They have no kids & don’t live together. Dave has been planning a trip to Africa with his Frat brothers since before he & Terry got serious & they are going in 3 months. Terry recently lost her job and is near depletion of her savings trying to maintain. She asks Dave to help her with bills until she gets back on her feet. Dave says he’s strapped for cash between his own bills & preparing for the trip & doesn’t want to dip into his savings. Terry thinks he’s being selfish & a bad boyfriend. Is Terry right?